Can You Relate?

A membership to lover up your clarity, connection, and conflict management skills.

NO wrinkled worksheets or communication roleplays from the 1970s ...

You can start training for your relationship today, surrounded by besties in bae-ness

What if you could get engaging insights on relationship challenges, paired with concrete ideas to build bulging emotional biceps? 

In the membership, I don't just give you the best-case-scenario, "has-this-expert-ever-HAD-an-argument?" tools for conflict and intimacy. I teach you real skills for actual humans in actual relationships, based on habit psychology, relationship research, and my experience helping hundreds of couples. 

Imagine what could happen if you invested time, money, and energy into leveling up your relationship.

When you invest in your physical health and your professional development, you get amazing results! Why not bring the same dedication and commitment to becoming an even better partner?

HI, I'M LIZZY.

I'm a thought leader in connection, communication, and conflict.  

I'm trained in The Gottman Method and The Developmental Model, but after ten years working privately with couples, I've seen how tough it is to motivate ourselves to change deeply ingrained patterns, especially with love on the line!

Everything changed when I started focusing on relationship work as a collection of habits and using the wealth of research from marketing psychology, addiction recovery, and other disciplines that study ... well ... discipline! 

I love connecting the dots for clients to show them how the skills they already know can be WE-purposed into their relationship, and how they can start practicing today to build new talents like vulnerability, loving negotiation, and REAL repair (No "I'm sorry, but ..." in sight!)

Let's be honest: the world needs more assertive, loving communicators who can regulate their emotions.  I'm here to teach the Love Smarts for all the times that Love Smarts 💖

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS.

Invest in Building Better Habits

$55/month

What you get:

  • Power-packed video presentations and hot handouts to help you understand relationship challenges from a nuanced, research-backed perspective.

  • Bae-havioral homework, illuminating prompts, and pop culture analogies to inspire and equip you to break frustrating patterns.

  • Live unrecorded Office Hours where you can ask me tough questions about your relationship without worrying who has access to the video later

  • A poppin' virtual Wall of Fame to celebrate the moments you ALMOST sassed out your partner or gave the silent treatment, but decided to try something new instead. Hey, we get affirmed for all our athletic and academic accomplishments, so why not this!?

  • A monthly EFT tapping demo to coach you through the challenges and skyrocket your confidence.

  • A LIT community to laugh and cry with as you try new things and let go of old beliefs.  Relationships can be challenging for everyone, even experts (guys, why do you think I started training in couples work in the first place?! 🙃.) It is SO valuable to have a place to talk about it without worrying that your peeps will think differently of your partner. 

Let's Do It!